Personal empowerment is that deep, grounded knowing that you are in charge of your life—your energy, your choices, your reactions. It’s not something you wait for someone to give you. It’s something you decide to claim.
It’s:
- Trusting your intuition even when others doubt it.
- Saying “no” without over-explaining.
- Asking for what you want, and not shrinking when you get it.
- Knowing your boundaries and keeping them.
Empowerment is the moment you realize that you’re not stuck—you just haven’t chosen your way out yet.
đź”® Tools for Building Your Power
Here are a few simple ways to start reconnecting to your inner authority:
1. Rituals of Reclamation
Light a black candle to release what no longer serves you. Write down every outdated belief (“I’m not enough,” “I have to play small”) and burn it. Let the ashes be your offering to the version of you that’s done playing small.
2. Speak It Into Being
Words are spells. Start using affirmations that don’t sound like fluff. Try:
- “I am allowed to take up space.”
- “My energy is sacred and protected.”
- “I don’t chase. I attract. What is meant for me flows to me with ease.”
3. Protect Your Energy Like It’s Gold (Because It Is)
Not everyone deserves access to your magic. If someone drains you, pulls you out of alignment, or makes you second-guess yourself—ward that energy off. Salt, obsidian, mirror spells, boundaries… whatever works. Use it.
4. Trust Your Cycles
Empowerment doesn’t mean being “on” all the time. You’re allowed to rest, rage, cry, dream, and rebuild. You’re not a robot; you’re a storm in sacred skin.
đź’Ą The Truth?
You already have the power. You just need to remember who the hell you are.
So light your candles. Draw your sigils. Say your affirmations in the mirror like you’re summoning your higher self. Then go out and live like the world was made for your expansion—because it was.
Your Turn:
What’s one thing you’re reclaiming today? Drop it in the comments or say it out loud. Speak it like a spell. 🔥

I am really sorry that my combined actions brought you to the point you are currently at. I hate knowing that I upset the person I cared about most in this world. I have felt so incomplete lately, for the last year you have been my world. My heart mourns for you, and my hands wish they were caressing you. You have no idea how much I have missed you.